Being a country girl in her mid-twenties and living in an urban area for studies, whenever I visit my parents, I inevitably face the questions that haunts and annoys me to death “When are you getting married?” Since I am an ambitious girl so marriage doesn’t look appetizing. There is more in life than cooking for your husband and looking after kids. No offense that marriage is an important social institution, eventually, I will get married too. But the question is “love or arranged?’
Whenever we talk about marriage, this is the first question that hit our minds. There has always been a constant battle and a continuous debate about the best way to choose a partner and a lot of people jump into the discussion. Let’s analyze which one’s better – love or arranged?
Whether its love marriage or arranged marriage, both have their pros and cons. It is difficult to predict the ideal sort of marriage. Ultimately it is up to individual because every relationship requires trust, understanding, adjustment and compromises.
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